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Whats wax play
Whats wax play












whats wax play

Soy wax is very soft so removing wax can be done quite easily, specially if you have oiled the skin beforehand. These are on the ‘milder’ size in terms of temperature, so I use them at the start of the session or when doing a scene with someone who has never done wax play before.Īpart from the above, all you really need is some first aid burn gels in case, and something with an edge to remove the wax afterwards. I get mine from Agreeable Agony in Etsy (great name!) because the colours really pop, and they are easy to remove afterwards. The thin pillars are great for dripping small single drops and I find these ones from Bondara to be on the ‘hotter side’ in terms of temperature, so I like to use these at the peak of the session (with candles, the closer to the skin the candle is, the hotter it feels, but with these ones, even at some height, they still have quite the bite, so to speak) Lastly, are my wax pitchers, which basically allow you to pour wax over your partner. The UV pillars are really fun as they glow in the dark (I am such a 90s child!) and these from Etsy are great. Personally, I like to use a variety of three candles: thin pillars, thicker UV pillars, and cups. If in doubt, go for candles that are tailored for BDSM play.

whats wax play

Stick to soy wax as these have a melting point of 54C and avoid beeswax at all costs! Also be wary of additives like scented, colour or metallic candles as these tend to have much higher melting points. Now on to the main event – candles! As mentioned before, you must get low temperature candles, or you risk causing serious damage. I usually have my scenes on the bed, so these are big enough to cover most of the bed – I also use one to cover the desk I use to place my candles as no matter how careful you are, wax drops end up everywhere. These are disposable but as I only ever use them for wax play with my OH, I do use them for than once. I got these FetishPad from Amazon which offer good value for money. I highly recommend you buy a wax sheet, because wax play is messy and the last thing you want/need is your bedsheets/floor/table ruined with wax. The only thing I don’t keep in the box is my wax sheet as I keep that with my other BDSM sheets. For me this is perfect, as I have everything that I need (and as you can see, it isn’t lots) in one organised box so that it is ready for when the mood strikes. I keep all of my ‘wax play scene’ bits in one medium size plastic box, which I guess you can say is far from fancy. And as always, follow the SSSC rules – Safe, Sane, Sober, and Consensual.īack to my kit, this is how I keep things tidy and organised: Also, please note I am not an expert, and these are just my views/opinions. Keep a first aid burn gel nearby in case you do get things wrong, and avoid delicate areas like face/genitals. Before proceeding with any sort of wax play, there are a few basics you must know, including using BDSM friendly candles only as these melt at a lower temperature, reducing the chance of burning. Well, this is that post – however, as I am yet to write a proper post about this lovely and utterly delicious fetish, that will come for sure next!ĭisclaimer: Before we proceed any further, wax play obviously involves fire so this needs to be treated with care.

whats wax play

My initial thought was to do a run down on my wax kit, as I did have a scene last week with my OH and I thought it would be useful for people to see what items make up my kit. It is also on the lower scale of pain if wanted (in comparison to whips, canes, needles) and you don’t need expensive equipment to get into it. It is one of my favourite scenes to have because wax play is a sensual play, that invokes intimacy and connection. There are only very few things I love as much as I love wax play, so it is simply bizarre to think that I have never dedicated a post to it. I have just spent a good 10 minutes looking through my old catalogue of posts, looking for my last one on wax play when I came to the realisation that I am yet to write about it!! To say this is shocking is an understatement as wax play was my catapult, so to speak, into femdom.














Whats wax play